学着把伤割弃，学着把心打开。

但总有那么三寸日光，你想紧紧把它握在手中，它却从指缝间流逝。。。

不再看，不再找，不在叹那借不到的三寸日光 。

停在这里不敢走下去
I stopped right here not daring to move any further

让悲伤无法上演
Hoping that I can stop the grieves from surfacing

下一页你亲手写上的离别
The separation which you wrote with your own hands on the next page of my life

由不得我拒绝
Left me no choice of rejection

这条路我们走得太匆忙
We walked down this road in a rush

拥抱着并不真实的欲望
Holding on to desires which are not even realistic

来不及等不及回头欣赏
It’s too late, though we couldn’t wait, to look back and admire

木兰香遮不住伤
The lovely scent of Magnolia is still too weak to cover up this pain

不再看 天上太阳透过云彩的光
I stopped looking at the sunlight which pierced through the clouds in the skies

不再找 约定了的天堂
I stopped searching for the heaven we promised each other

不再叹 你说过的人间世事无常
I stopped sighing over the uncertainties in life you told me about

借不到的三寸日光
It’s a short-lived sunbeam I’d never be able to borrow anyway

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Started filming for new drama (Joys of Life) which will be aired in june. In the meantime watch out for the coming Unriddle 2 (broadcast in march).

Bell Nuntita 

Unloveable by Mild (Original Singer) 

(eng translation)
Well, I know that I’m insignificant, and I know I can’t be much
However longer, the more hopeless it is
When you never turn to look at me
And though there’s never a day you’ll be interested
And I know regardless of how long, you might have to leave me
Source: LYBIO.net

But right now I still have time to let myself search for a good reason
To stop you right now, but I know full well it’s hopeless

Even though no matter how much I love you
I know you probably won’t be interested
I still dream and I still hope inside my mind that someday you’ll have me
But I know it can’t be
When you think I’m nothing, but it’s okay
I want to ask to have you always in my heart for a long time…

And even though the things I do today might not be able to make you feel good
The things are enough to only bother you
I want to ask you to listen well
To the final lyrics I want to dedicate to you
That I sifted out from my heart and have to give you alone

But right now I still have time to let myself search for a good reason
Even though no matter how much I love you
I know you probably won’t be interested
I still dream and I still hope inside my mind that someday you’ll have me
But I know it can’t be
When you think I’m nothing, but it’s okay
I want to ask to have you always in my heart for a long time…

I don’t know how much longer until I can remove you from my heart
Until the good memories can fade away
Until I’ll be able to love someone else again…

Even though no matter how much I love you
I know you probably won’t be interested
I still dream and I still hope inside my mind that someday you’ll have me
But I know it can’t be
When you think I’m nothing, but it’s okay
I want to ask to have you always in my heart for a long time…

When you think I’m nothing
But it’s okay, as long as I’m still breathing,
I’ll love you forever…

I can’t stand to fly
I’m not that naive
I’m just out to find
The better part of me

I’m more than a bird, I’m more than a plane
I’m more than some pretty face beside a train
And it’s not easy to be me

Wish that I could cry
Fall upon my knees
Find a way to lie
About a home I’ll never see

It may sound absurd, but don’t be naive
Even heroes have the right to bleed
I may be disturbed, but won’t you concede
Even heroes have the right to dream
It’s not easy to be me

Up, up and away, away from me
It’s all right, you can all sleep sound tonight
I’m not crazy, or anything

I can’t stand to fly
I’m not that naive
Men weren’t meant to ride
With clouds between their knees

I’m only a man in a silly red sheet
Digging for kryptonite on this one way street
Only a man in a funny red sheet
Looking for special things inside of me
Inside of me
Inside me
Yeah, inside me
Inside of me

I’m only a man
In a funny red sheet
I’m only a man
Looking for a dream

I’m only a man
In a funny red sheet
And it’s not easy

Its not easy to be me

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This year is the first time I’m looking forward to the arrival of LNY. May everything be smooth in a way or another for everyone:)

The most happy thing that had happened this year is the born of my little nephew. Because of his existence I see the joys on my parents face. I feel happy every morning I woke up to see my mom laughing happily and playing with Skyler. There can be so much frustration in life that causes us to lose ourselves but it is important for me to know what are the little things that I treasure and cherish that can make me happy.

人生的诱惑会不断的增加，我们的欲望会不断的改变，

清楚自己的限度，知道什么叫知足，人生是可以过得很快乐的。

新年快乐。－－陈罗密欧

你會在哪裡 現在你叫什麼名
你瘋了勇氣 落困決心
我嗚著自己 外面的世界不安靜
而心很確定 我確定 想聽你呼吸
呼吸 love把心扔到海裡 可相愛的自己
時光帶我去有你的地方
漂流著一千年都過了我在海裡頭 [在海裡頭]
用一種見不到你就不回去的念頭
漩渦中聽見耳邊的風微微顫抖
蒼海桑天 黑夜白晝
我隨著時間的方向一圈圈打著轉 [一圈圈打轉]
你會不會找到我將要在哪裡靠岸
如果有一天撞上一個小缺口 我怕陷入海底
我嗚著自己 外面世界不安靜 而我心很確定
想聽你呼吸 love 把心扔到海裡 可相愛的自己
時光帶我去有你的地方 漂流著一千年都過了
我在海裡頭 用一種見不到你就不回去的念頭
漩渦中聽見黯淡的風微微顫抖 蒼海桑天 黑夜白晝
我隨著時間的方向一圈圈打著轉
你會不會找到我將要在哪裡靠岸
如果有一天撞上一個小缺口 我怕陷入海底
漂流著一千年都過了我在海裡頭 [在海裡頭]
用一種見不到你就不回去的念頭
漩渦中聽見耳邊的風微微顫抖
蒼海桑天 黑夜白晝 我隨著時間的方向一圈圈打著轉
你會不會找到我將要在哪裡靠岸
如果有一天撞上一個小缺口 我怕陷入海底
如果愛有錯 也等的起

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2011快要到了尾声，你是否已找到属于你自己的港口？ 如果还没靠岸那也没关系，因为你可能已经找到和你一样正在海里寻找港口的“漂流瓶”。。。

爱情不一定只在靠岸后才是幸福的，漂流的过程也是一种幸福。就算沉入海底至少也有她/他陪。

希望你已找到属于你自己的漂流瓶。。。

“拥有就是失去的开始，如果我不曾拥有那我也就没什么好失去的。＂– 我可能不会爱你

其实拥有不一定就是失去的开始，虽然到最后失去了会感到很痛苦但至少我们会是有收获的。 不管是开心或伤心的回忆，它毕竟填满了那段岁月。

有时候人往往就是因为怕失去所以拒绝拥有。。。

得到是一种幸福，失去就当作为自己上了一堂课。。。让我们更加认清自己。

This year I’m glad to have a group of enthusiastic friends who willing to go crazy with me. Within a week we visited The Museum of Horrors @SCAPE and Halloween Horror Night @Universal Studios Singapore!  Both are equally fun but the scare factor @USS was much better. The one @Scape allows you to POSE and take picture with the characters/mannequins and even be in the scene like what I did with my fav. horror movie SAW!

Other than posing with the mannequins you also can get up close with “the ghost”!

Basically the props are there for you to play…

So Museum of Horrors is more like an exhibition of various horror themes and since we (actually is just me) can’t get enough of it… we headed for Halloween Horror Night!!!  Scroll down to see how USS has transformed. The ambience was simply surreal!

Look how real this is…

A big part of the excitement actually comes from the “Undead” that were spotted along the New York Street where it is now transformed into a  post-apocalyptic street!

Adeline joined in the fun!

the usual suspects!

Mess with her and you might end up like this!

I’m just slightly better than her.

One of my favourite attraction was the Peranakan haunted house made specially for this occasion. We get to tour the haunted house by foot… it was dark, misty and the path was narrow. Is almost like any second you will receive a warm welcome from the dead and Yes it was the most scary attraction that night. I remembered I screamed for a good 3 times! Thanks to all my dearest friends who pushed me to lead the walk!

Remember not to miss the Halloween USS next year if there’s any. Trust me you will not regret! =)

今天遇到了一位监制，她的一番话就像打了一支强心针。原来休息还真能让一个人走更长远的路。希望这一路能走得精彩。

傅宏博–将在明年三月和大家见面。

陳勢安 / 天后

It has been sometime since I last touched my DSLR. So I made a decision just yesterday morning to have a date with my camera:) I actually have not tried doing night photography before so this is my first attempt. There are so many places in mind which I wanted to go… like Clarke Quay, Henderson Waves Bridge, Downtown etc… Thanks to all the suggestions from my Twitter followers In the end I picked MBS area and drove my way to Singapore Flyer which is my first stop.

I would say night photography is not easy, I spend almost 30-45 mins at each stop… Sometimes you just have to be patience and wait for the right moment… it makes a different when there’s people in the photo and without:) I like doing photography but I’m just not too sure if I like night photography cause it can be quite time-consuming. Started my shoot at 8pm and ended it at around 11.45pm! Overall it is a new experience =)

So here’s my work. Is nothing as compared to those professional as I’m only using the starter kit lens (so embarrassing) so just want to share it with you guys =) I did a little ranking on these pictures, with most satisfied pictures on the top and least satisfied at the bottom :p

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Feel free to share your comment (good or bad) on what you think of these photos. Lastly, enjoy your FRIDAY and do catch Dawn Yeoh and myself tomorrow at Shokubutsu iLove Natural Beauty Audition @ iluma 3-7PM.

See you people:)

站在原点的我是有点小无奈不过这一大圈其实让我成长了许多。

I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they’re right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.

Hey～我真的好想你
现在窗外面又开始下着雨
眼睛干干的 有想哭的心情
不知道你现在到底在哪里
Hey～我真的好想你
太多的情绪 没适当的表情
最想说的话 我该从何说起
你是否也像我一样在想你
如果没有你 没有过去
我不会有伤心
但是有如果还是要爱你
如果没有你 我在哪里
又有什么可惜 反正一切来不及
反正没了自己
Hey～我真的好想你
不知道你现在到底在哪里

It’s been awhile since I heard this song… come across it yesterday and it brings back so much memories =)

虽然我常常说做人要乐观要开心，不过如果没有伤心就不会有开心。我们的心情就像是坐过山车一样，有起有落。有时候事情的发生也不再我们的掌控之中。

最近就和一位朋友谈心，她对我说了声谢谢。谢谢我主动和她分享我的心情因为她觉得我不爱表达所以很难了解我的想法。。。

我不爱表达因为我觉得没那个必要，也可能是不喜欢被同情吧。所以我非常意外因为有一班人原来这么关心我。。。

最近我的兔子也不幸的离开了，我的粉丝也担心我难过所以每人写了一些鼓励的话把它弄成一本小册子。读了过后感到非常感动，眼眶也不自觉地湿了。不是因为我想到它的离去而是因为我有一班这么体贴这么关心我的粉丝们。谢谢你们。

这两天的活动也让我有机会见到大家。今天也遇到一位粉丝，第一次碰面她就哭了。还真让我不知所措。哈哈要我不忘记她都难！谢谢你们这么掏心掏肺为我付出的一切，不管是Facebook或Twitter你们的支持与鼓励我都看到了。我会继续努力不让你们失望。下面就把这首歌送给你们希望你们喜欢。

So to all my male readers out there, Skin Care & basic Makeup is no longer a girl things and it is important to know what you are applying on ur face or worst you don’t even bother to apply.

Honestly, before I joined the showbiz I have zero knowledge about skin care & makeup. Not that I’m professional now as I’m still learning everyday but at least I’m more sensitive when comes to purchasing of facial products and better understanding of my own skin. There are tons of free lesson out there in the internet and with youtube around these days you can easily find vlogs (video blog) tutorial on basically anything.

Do spend some time and browse through his channel and view any clips that interest you Although Ross (his name) is not asian and their skin can be different from us in some ways but the facts and knowledge about skin care still apply to human! The only cons is majority of the products he recommended could not be found in SG but no harm watching and benefit from it. Is Free anyway

So here you go! See you all later @ Cineleisure, Shokubutsu event =)

http://www.youtube.com/user/MensSkinCareWithRoss

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Happy Mid-Autumn Festival to everyone!

So I’m back from my first diving experience! Somehow this trip seems like a backpacking trip, make many new friends coming from all over the world. Some are experience diver and some are noob just like me. The travel from SG to Pulau Aur took quite some time. We first board a 6hrs bus ride into eastern part of Malaysia then transfer to a speedboat which shuttle us to the ferryboat (due to low tide) and the whole boat ride took another 4hrs. By the time we reached Pulau Aur it’s already 4.30AM in the morning.

The whole travel was just dark as we set off in the evening from SG. This is how the ferryboat looks like with double-deck bed and fully air conditioned. It’s past 11pm by the time we board the ferry and most of us are either sleepy or suffering from sea sick haha. Trust me I had a good 4hrs of  Viking boat ride. It was pretty fun and exciting to be sleeping in it because you will be woken up in shock as the waves hit randomly!

this is the diver resort in Pulau Aur.

The room is simple afterall it’s just a place for you to rest as most of the time you will be out in the sea

The view from our Room.

Look how clear the water is…

Does this remind you of the game Fishing Joy? haa

My good friend who is also my buddy for this diving trip! We came out with all kind of hand signals to be used in water. Some signals are just hilarious!

I call them the Residence of Pulau Aur.

This is my group! We are the noob diver:)

While waiting for our Dive Instructor, we do what we best at “leh-pak one corner”!

Our BBQ dinner! Other than the clear water & nice scenery the other thing I liked most is the FOOD! That includes Breakfast, Lunch, Snacks and DINNER!

We had a total of 4 dives in this trip (3dives on Sat and last one on Sun morning) and the last dive which is the above pic was the most fun and memorable! We started the dive with sunny weather and ended with a stormy rain!  Thanks to my waterproof iPhone case which was given to me by my fans if not we might not get these shots. =)

Look how heavy the rain is…

My new Aussie Friend =)

Dave my Dive Instructor from “Friendly Waters Seasports” and also the owner of this dive resort! If you are keen to learn diving or looking to go for a dive trip, check out FWS website for more infos: http://www.friendlywaters.com.sg/

Check out the rest of  the pictures below or visit my Facebook

Click to view slideshow.

In the first clip she mentioned how the come about of this song and the second clip was a live performance If you can relate to this song U should know how painful it feel.

I heard, that your settled down.
That you, found a girl and your married now.
I heard that your dreams came true.
Guess she gave you things, I didn’t give to you.

Old friend, why are you so shy?
It ain’t like you to hold back or hide from the lie.

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited.
But I couldn’t stay away, I couldn’t fight it.
I’d hoped you’d see my face & that you’d be reminded,
That for me, it isn’t over.

Nevermind, I’ll find someone like you.
I wish nothing but the best, for you too.
Don’t forget me, I beg, I remember you said:-
“Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead”
Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead, yeah.

You’d know, how the time flies.
Only yesterday, was the time of our lives.
We were born and raised in a summery haze.
Bound by the surprise of our glory days.

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited,
But I couldn’t stay away, I couldn’t fight it.
I’d hoped you’d see my face & that you’d be reminded,
That for me, it isn’t over yet.

Nevermind, I’ll find someone like you.
I wish nothing but the best for you too.
Don’t forget me, I beg, I remember you said:-
“Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead”, yay.

Nothing compares, no worries or cares.
Regret’s and mistakes they’re memories made.
Who would have known how bittersweet this would taste?

Nevermind, I’ll find someone like you.
I wish nothing but the best for you too.
Don’t forget me, I beg, I remembered you said:-
“Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead”

Nevermind, I’ll find someone like you.
I wish nothing but the best for you too.
Don’t forget me, I beg, I remembered you said:-
“Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead”
Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead, yay yeh yeah